Archive for the 'pro dom' Category

CBT

0046.jpgCBT can be either mild or intense depending on the slave.

Some just like to be secured in cock straps or cock and ball harnesses of various sorts or subjected to pleasant levels of electric stimulation. Others like it pretty severe.

One of the first toys I used was a parachute harness. I secured the slave with his legs apart, arms above his head and gripped the top of his ball sack with thumb and index finger, this forced the balls down out of the way so I could clip the parachute harness into place. Continue reading ‘CBT’

How to find a BDSM lifestyle relationship

0064.jpgIf you’re a man looking for a lifestyle relationship – what is the best way of finding one?

IIs it to trawl the internet for Pro Dom websites and then fire off emails asking them to take you on as their private slave?

Well, before you start doing this, stop and think for a moment.

And put yourself in the pro dom’s shoes (boots)

There you are working happily at whatever job it is that you do. Out of the blue you get an email from a woman you have never met. Continue reading ‘How to find a BDSM lifestyle relationship’

Skin Two Fetish Yearbook

0047.jpgI’ve just been reading the Patrick Califia story ‘For Love or Money’  in the Skin Two Fetish Yearbook. Its tragic, beautiful and very, very erotic.

It is about a pro dom and her client. Written first from her perspective, then from his, then back again, we watch the scene unfold through each of their eyes, as she takes control of him, makes him perform body worship, beats him and fucks him up the arse with a strapon.

‘I turn to make sure Scum is on all fours, the proper distance away and looking only at my knees or lower. This slave took to training better than any other I’ve known. He seems to have some magical rapport with my movements. We never bump into one another, or falter. He reflects me perfectly, and by doing so, completes me.’ Continue reading ‘Skin Two Fetish Yearbook’